Avoidance is a simple way of coping by not having to cope. When feelings of discomfort appear, we find ways of not experiencing them. we simply find ways of avoiding having to face uncomfortable situations, things or activities.
To get someone to face what they are avoiding, we may have to corner them or otherwise present them with a situation where they are unable to avoid the situation. If the discomfort is very strong, they may fight back hard, so need to be careful.
we can also use avoidance to persuade a person to do something. Give them a choice of two actions, one of which is something we know that they tend to avoid or which is likely to be less desirable. They will pick the path you want in order to avoid the less desirable way.
Avoidance is the biggest punishment we can give to our loved ones. And its the most painful experience we can receive from our loved ones..
No Gain...But more LOSSS.. Try not to avoid anyone in the life journey...So...
Love all....Ensaii.. :)
Source: Changingminds.org
Pictures and conclusions added by me.... :)
To get someone to face what they are avoiding, we may have to corner them or otherwise present them with a situation where they are unable to avoid the situation. If the discomfort is very strong, they may fight back hard, so need to be careful.
we can also use avoidance to persuade a person to do something. Give them a choice of two actions, one of which is something we know that they tend to avoid or which is likely to be less desirable. They will pick the path you want in order to avoid the less desirable way.
No Gain...But more LOSSS.. Try not to avoid anyone in the life journey...So...
Love all....Ensaii.. :)
Source: Changingminds.org
Pictures and conclusions added by me.... :)
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